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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

10.06.2025 07:47

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

She loved him until the end.

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Comes on , in middle age.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

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.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

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You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

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As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

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She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

How do people break a narcissist man's ego?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

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You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I waited trembling.

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I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Especially a lifetime of it.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

On the 31st of Jan this month .

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

So, i spoilt her more .

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Put me off passion for life!!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I will be 64.

I think the readers, may guess!

So whats the point in blame.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I never cut or harmed myself..

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

She married twice! .

And i lived it daily.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I could never make a relationship work though!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

This is soul school!.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Who then, do I blame.?

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

He resisted the act ,that day.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

She found it foreign!.

I was 9 years of age.

We were not on the streets..

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

But, we were locked up after school.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I don,t even have a pension.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I have no regrets .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was seconnd youngest,

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

But it wasn’t much.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

My family never makes their pension either.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Would this be the day?

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

It was going to be , some day.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

She wouldn,t have been !

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Why did i forgive my father ?

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I did it because my mum asked me too!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

We all went to grammer schools

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

One cannot live in the past .

I couldn’t, believe it.

She was in good health!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I said to her

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I was scared of men, in general

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Ive learnt so much.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

When she asked me how she looked .

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

As i do to all so called friends.?

I write beautiful poetry .

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

But ive been too sick for many years..

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Im still living with it.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

My life is so biszare .

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

All the time i was locked up.

What did i know ?

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Was to survive, this bastard.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I was very sick at this time too.

He knew the spot.